What to ask when you’re pregnant

You’re pregnant. Whether planned or unplanned, I’m sure you’re thinking, what now? This is the first of many questions you’ll begin asking after that pregnancy test shows positive. So what do you do next?

First, you’ll want to call your OB and schedule an appointment. Then, start a mental checklist of questions to ask your doctor. Below are some helpful questions to consider for each trimester of your pregnancy.

Your first appointment usually happens around 6–8 weeks, which gives you time to think about what you’d like to discuss with your doctor. In addition to any personal concerns, here are some common questions:

- Which prenatal vitamin should I take?

- Are my current medications safe during pregnancy?

- Is it safe to exercise?

- What should or shouldn’t I eat?

- How can I manage morning sickness?

- What’s the best way to reach you if I have questions or concerns?

- What are my delivery options?

- Are there any symptoms I should watch for?

During this stage, noticeable changes are happening to your body both physically and physiologically. You’ll likely have new questions, including:

- How much weight should I be gaining?

- Which symptoms are normal or abnormal?

- Are there any warning signs I should watch for?

- Is sex still safe?

- Is spotting normal at this stage?

- When will I start feeling the baby move?

- What is my projected delivery date?

- Is exercising still safe?

You’re in the home stretch! During these final weeks, both you and your baby will experience many changes. Here are some important questions to ask during your last trimester:

- Will you be delivering my baby?

- What happens if my water breaks?

- What are my feeding options—breastfeeding or formula?

- Can we discuss my birth plan?

- What’s the difference between true labor and false labor?

- How will I know if I’m experiencing postpartum anxiety or depression?

- What happens to my hormones after delivery, and can I do anything to help prevent PPA or PPD?

- Is sex still safe?

- What are my chances of needing a C-section?

- What symptoms are normal or abnormal during this trimester?

- How often should I feel the baby move?

- What type of discharge is normal?

Having a baby is incredibly exciting, but it can also feel scary and overwhelming. Your doctor should be someone you feel comfortable talking to and supported by throughout your pregnancy and delivery. Hopefully, these questions bring you peace of mind, knowing that many women ask the same things and encourage you to think of additional questions that matter to you. Remember, every question and feeling you have during pregnancy is valid and deserves attention.